Welcome, Brother!

I am so happy you are here

Actually... really, really happy :) Most of my clients, and in general, people who consume personal development services are women. Sure, there are courses on how to manipulate / dominate a woman into dating and having sex, but in reality those are irrelevant if you are interested in a high quality life-long relationship with a woman of your dreams.

Whether you are single or looking to improve relationship with your wife, I am here to help you connect to your body and heart on a whole new level. I especially love to help men become amazing lovers. Unfortunately, we live in the world where most men lack education and sensitivity to excite their partner emotionally and sexually. Often women feel they need to hide their dissatisfaction in order to avoid hurting the ego of their guy, that sometimes seems like the most fragile substance on Earth.

Ok, enough of this honest brutality :)

As you scroll through, you will be able to read a bit about me, my education and what one courageous man who went through 4 months of online coaching had to say. Know that you can work with me in English, Russian and Hebrew.
I also comprehend and little bit speak Ukrainian.

I invite you to start by viewing 2 of my offerings by clicking on each one of them or just apply for a free 30-minute clarity call.
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After working with women and couples for over decade I realized there is very little support for men in their journey into greater love, emotional and sexual intelligence. I am happy to be here for you!

Similarly to many healers, my interest in psychology came from desire to uplift my own suffering. Free-spirited and extremely sensitive half-Russian half-Jewish girl in Ukraine (then Soviets) of 80s, who relocated to Israel with her family at age of 14 due to antisemitism. I was chronically overwhelmed and a misfit on an international scale. No matter where I went, I was different. And you probably know know how it is - as humans we tend to project on others who stand out a lot of our own fears, dreams and desires.

When I discovered works of Freud at age of 15 it was a sip of fresh air. There were people who investigated their psyche as a profession!! I became psychology student and completed my doctorate in clinical psychology in 2011 at San Francisco (exploring possibility of inducing Ayahuasca-like state via neurofeedback). At the same time I began practicing yoga, set twice through 10-day Goenka's Vipassana silent retreat and did 14-day water fasting. Eager to discover the truth of my nature. I finally found (and lost) my Self in Tantra, or perhaps I should say in love with this man behind me in this picture. My Mahadev. My one and only.


Today I find much joy in empowering men that want to learn to grow in love as certified Sex, Love and Relationship coach with Tantric Approach (since 2022).


Dr. Ira Kotlik is Ukrainian-Russian-Israeli sex, love and relationship coach with doctorate in clinical psychology who works online and in her little forest retreat center "Encounterland" at Placerville, California, where she lives in joy and peace with her elderly cat, son and husband.

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E-mail: ira@encounterland.com

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